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Welcome 2017 Red Fire Rooster Year

Jan 15, 2017 8:23 pm
Written by Barb Horn
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What does this mean for you?

The “dawn awakener” rooster has in store for us a year of hard work for the forward progress of humanity, requiring discipline focus and integrity.  2017 is also a “1” year in spiritual numerology and as such is a beginning, setting the stage and foundation for the next 9 year cycle.  Many of us are still navigating the shenanigans of last year, the year of the Red Fire Monkey.  Learn more about what energies to cultivate and which energies to be aware of for 2017 Year of the Red Rooster.

The Rooster has a sense of humor as do the Chinese. They are making blow up Roosters that resemble our president elect.  You can decide for yourself the qualities, positive and shadow that align, Roosters are quick witted, have a sense of humor, are warm and family oriented, get up early, work hard, are persistent, strong, creative, enthusiastic and help awaken each and every morning.  They can also be restless, impulsive and impatient and as such can make decisions that either burn others are burn themselves.  They can be arrogant, are not easily offended, don’t hold much back and have a sharp tongue, risking alienating others.  Remember you and I have to watch out for these qualities this year as well.

This is a very powerful year and you did the hard work last year clearing the space for this year, and the next nine.  The Rooster is a also a Phoenix rising this year if you allow.  Show up for you this year, say ALOHA to the Universe, dance with Spirit, activate your DNA and find out what to cultivate and avoid this year.  Find your Chinese animal and make your new year

Poisonous Thinking Produces Poisonous Water

May 1, 2016 4:12 am
Written by Barb Horn
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If anyone believes Americans would have the level of clean rivers, lakes, oceans and estuaries we have today (even though so many of them are polluted and suffering) based on the good will of business, industry or the private sector—I want what you are smoking.  And I live in Colorado.  The clean water we do enjoy today, and share with all other plants and animals is 100% due to the Clean Water Act of 1972 and the creation of the federal agency, Environmental Protection Agency to oversee Congressional funding to states to implement individual state clean water acts.

The Clean Water Act was created when we changed our collective paradigm from “waters can absorb anything we put in them” to “waters cannot, we must treat the water before releasing it into our river and lakes.”  The cause for this paradigm shift was people getting sick, fish dying and rivers catching on fire. The era of drinking water and waste water treatment began.

We are now in need of another paradigm shift.

The lead poisoning in Flint Michigan is an excellent example of how our paradigms or beliefs are creating poisonous systems that produce events where we get sick. Especially poor and minority communities.   You can find this poisonous thinking cycling throughout our education, security, economic, food and housing sectors.  All of which provide basic needs of food, shelter, make a difference and provide for our families.  The environment, water included, is the nucleus and foundation  necessary to provide the basic needs for all living beings (plants, animals and humans) deserve.

For some of us this is not a surprise and neither is the follow up stories that Flint, Michigan is one of many communities with tainted drinking water.  I live by the Animas River that has been tainted by legacy mining and outdated mining laws (paradigms) for a century.  Last August the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) caused an accidental spill releasing a dose of metal laden low pH water from an inactive mine into the Animas.  The EPA was doing the work for public safety and good to prevent a mine blowout. Under our current paradigm, the industry that caused the mine waste and all of us who benefited from the era of subsidizing mining are not responsible. We have kicked the full price tag down the road to future generations and mother earth to absorb. And, under the current paradigm ,we need entities like the EPA, nonprofits and third parties to clean up the legacy of mining and to prevent disasters we have not yet paid in full.

The blaming of EPA for the insult to American waters from 100 year old mining laws and an outdated mining paradigm is the same poisonous thinking that created Flint, Michigan’s drinking water problem.   You can’t have both ways.  Power, authority and money come with responsibility and accountability.   States have systematically lobbied Congress to give them more and more power, authority and money to manage natural resources.   Lobbying paid for by industry.  Industry that brings a tax base and jobs.  But so does environmental regulation.  Regulation is designed to fill in the missing social and environmental elements required to maintain a healthy and wealthy country that incorporation and industry does not, plain and simple.  Industry is held accountable to shareholders and not the general welfare (health, economic stability, wellbeing of individuals).  That is our current paradigm.  States, however are accountable to their citizens and must discern and balance through effective policy and legislation.

States have the power, authority and money to manage their own drinking water via the Federal Drinking Water Act.  Congress restricted the role of the EPA and gave the responsibility and accountability to the states.  EPA, if they find unsafe drinking water, must prove that the problem is widespread (so much for everyone counts) and give the state time to fix it before they can take action.  That means states are in charge – and if something goes wrong, as it did in Flint, the states must take responsibility.  State officials in Flint, Michigan made 100% of the decisions, for whatever reasons, to change the water source that put good water into pipes that would leach lead and chose not to treat the water with a simple, known technology. In doing, the state, not EPA, exposed many, mostly poor and minority families to lead poisoning.   The poisonous cycle is when the state had the gall to blame the EPA for their choices.

This is poisonous thinking, separating power, money and authority from responsibility and accountability.  Defund, eliminate and get rid of the very agency that is there to protect us.   In this case and in the Animas River spill, EPA was not corrupt, operating in self-interest or for self-gain.  While it is true corruption does create agencies that harm the very people they are designed to protect (look for future paradigm blogs on this), Flint, Michigan and the Animas River are not examples of such corruption.  The poisonous thinking is separating power, money and authority from responsibility and accountability.

While our legislatures here in Colorado complain that the EPA is not doing enough on the Animas locally.  They fully engage in efforts to defund and get rid of the EPA.  You can’t have it both ways.  Their paradigm is outdated.   Regulation does not cost jobs, it actually produces jobs.  In addition, healthy people are productive.  When we get more of what we don’t want it is time to look at the beliefs underlying the system and ask different questions.  Questions that lead to deeper thinking not more flippant blaming and reacting.

To produce effective change, you create something better. That destroys the old simply by replacing it because it works better.  However, to propose and produce something that builds better systems that result in events that support the environment and our health requires work and effort.  One needs to get their hands dirty, do research, ask question, look at data and actually think and ask the right questions.  Questions that move to solution not the next election or raise.  If we continue to just react and point fingers and blame, we will only get more of the same poisonous thinking and harmful results.

A recent study cited that race is the most significant predictor of a person living near contaminated air, water or soil.  Over half, 56% of the population near a toxic waste site are people of color (The Nation February 2016).  Flint, Michigan’s population is more than 50% black where the state as a whole is 80% white.  The poverty rate in Flint is above 40%.  This is a symptom of how we have collectively subsidized our cost of living (extracting and using resources), by not paying the full price and sending those externalized costs to marginalized communities and our children’s future.

Based on the paradigm before the 1970’s, Industry proved they could not police themselves.  States have shown they cannot police themselves either.  Western states have a movement afoot to take over all National Parks and Federal lands claiming they can manage them better.   Under the current paradigm, the evidence demonstrates what is needed is not a change in ownership but a change in paradigms.   A paradigm that honors the environment, all people and living beings will be the only paradigm that ensures we will retain a quality of life.  Anything short of this is more propaganda hanging on to the old paradigms.

An Election of Fear and Hate

May 1, 2016 2:47 am
Written by Barb Horn
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‘Blame it, Name it, Change it’ is a way to engage right now with an issue you need to resolve. 

 

Blame it. The media, money, the GOP or Democratic Party or _____ is producing an election of lesser of evil or candidates that will create four more years of fear and hate.  People will pick Hillary because they hate Trump, or Trump because the fear Hillary.  If Hillary wins the hate will be on Clinton legacy hate and fear of losing power to women and minorities. After all we just had eight years of Obama hate.  If Trump wins his racist, bully, ‘I know how to run a business therefore a country and don’t question me’ will be met with resistance worldwide.  If Bernie wins he will be hated for his socialist ideas that actually exist and work in other countries.  If Cruz wins we will get more manipulation in favor of the 1%, less real change for the entire country in every vector.   The election is not about leading the country but who can produce the most money and manipulate the American people.

Name it.  I found this quote by Edward Morrow, “When the politicians complain that TV turns their proceedings into a circus, it should be make plain that the circus was already there, and that TV has merely demonstrated that not all the performers are well trained.”  The media, the election process, our government, are all reflections of us.  What we have or have not paid attention too. What is coming up to be healed and changed is showing us in what is broken- or not serving us.  These things did not just happen, we built them, we supported them, and we bought into them.  Consciously or unconsciously, proactively, through ignorance or apathy for whatever reason.  They are a reflection of what we need to change and where we need to go.  How long we stay here is up to us.  The more we ignore it, expect someone else to fix it as if we have no ownership in the collective, the longer we will wallow in it and even repeat it.  . These things are not    anymore (from the last century).  Their time has come, they need to break and be rebuilt new paradigms.

Change it.  When the government is afraid of the people it creates policy and systems that serve the people. To return to leadership that represents the collective, not a sector either in support or by suppression and discrimination, we must unite. Recognize our common-unity.  Look for ways to end division and separation in every moment of every day.  It starts at home and in our neighborhoods with questioning our own beliefs and actions that result in division and separation.  We all do it, we all have to stop.  We have to let the media, money and leaders know we mean business.  We are in charge and must take that charge. We all have something to give others, it is time to define our individual success by the success of the whole. We either all arrive on shore together or all of our individual ships will sink, it is a matter of time.

When the people are afraid of the government, they believe they must arm themselves, isolate themselves and create more division and separation.  Which breeds more violence, corruption, suffering, drama and trauma for all, even those who believe they are insulated.   The more you have the more you have to loose and thus the harder you hang on, dig in and separate from the whole.  Our abundance was provided to give not to hoard.

People are voicing and participating—and we must do that in a way that brings us together, not more separation.  While it seems so, this is not an election of angry white men fearing for what has already happened, the loss of their reign.  They can try and hang on to what is already gone and never was sustainable.  Their suffering is their choice.  Let us not make it ours.  The rest of us are busy building what is new, what includes the whole, as we understand the golden egg is only there if we take care of the goose.

Submit your Blame It, Name It, Change It

Let Resistance Rip

May 1, 2016 2:15 am
Written by Barb Horn
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There is saying in my field, permission to resist is permission to process. This is a wise statement.  Physically, energetically, mentally and spiritually you cannot allow and resist at the same time.  It is impossible.  There are many illustrations of this.  Let’s start with physically. Put your hand up against another person’s hand, as if you were going to high five, but instead just match up palms and fingers.  Now, one of you push.   The other person has a choice to either push back, resist the force or allow the force to move your hand.  You cannot do both period. You either allow or resist, there is no in between.

This is what happens energetically, mentally and spiritually.  You cannot allow and resist and the same time period.  What does resistance look like for you?  When you are resisting a change, a behavior, decision or choice that will move you forward, perhaps into the unknown, out of your comfort zone but you know it is good for you, the right thing to do for you but still you resist.  Perhaps that looks like avoidance, apathy, staying real busy and on the move, allowing distractions or getting everything else done.  It may sound like doubt, rationalization (I will wait until x, if I had x then y, I can’t until x), excuses, even projecting blame, shame, guilt, doubt and shoulds on to others.  It may feel like fear, doubt, guilt, self judgement, confusion, self-pity or similar.  You are telling the Universe to give you more of what you are resisting.  You know what your resistance looks, sounds and feels like if you stop and ask.  It doesn’t feel good ever, it is disempowering.

While you are resisting you cannot allow.  As such, the very thing you want will never arrive, the Universe is giving you what you are vibrating, which is whatever you are resisting.   Resistance is not good or bad, it just is and when it comes up it is a gift.  It is showing you where or what you need to look at in order to get where you want or what you want.  You can’t by pass what you need to heal, transform, change, educate or update and jump right to allowance energy.  It is by accepting and looking at the need behind the resistance that you dissolve it and that frees up the space to allow.

That is the essence behind the saying permission to resist is permission to process. Process means to accept the ugly, give the resistance a voice in order to see what it needs. Love yourself for resisting.  Say, I love myself in doubt, in fear, in _____”.  I love myself for resisting change.  That statement alone changes the energy.  Once you love yourself right where you are, you see you.

Ask yourself what it is you really need. If you stopped resisting what would free up in your life, energy, perspective?  What do you really need that underlies the resistance and how can you provide that for yourself?  Once you see you, you quit asking others to see you (and quit drama, trauma, blame, shame).  There is a breath and you can identify what you need. Your attention shifts to understanding and getting your needs met and in doing so you are now in allowance. You are allowing your needs to be met.  It is then you will begin to feel and see change.  Let resistance rip and in doing so it will RIP.

What is the Woo Woo Breakdown? 

Get over it!  Just love yourself.  There is a reason this happened.  Don’t take it so personally.  It is their problem, let it go.  These are examples of what I call “woo woo” statements.  You know some magic is in them, but you can’t crack the code and access the relief you are seeking.  They remain words without any tangible meaning.

 

I decided to create the Woo Woo Breakdown and bring some insight. Take these as seeds and tend your own garden, add your own comments or post a Woo Woo for Barb to breakdown.

 

Formula—-examples of the conversation, what others want, when say it, what they mean, need versus.  What you need.  What you can do for yourself.

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